In an intimate, loving lesbian relationship, lesbian sex toys can add a pleasurable and exciting level to lovemaking. There is an incredible range of toys available for any couple, but among lesbian couples, the strap-on dildo is perhaps one of the most popular, though some find it a bit of a daunting item to bring into the bedroom initially. For lesbians who desire the sensation of penetration, however, the strap-on can be an exceptionally exciting and endlessly rewarding toy, and can bring a great level of contact to sex.

Strap on dildos come in many different styles, but the first and most important part to take into consideration is the harness. Essentially, any dildo with a flared base can be turned into a strap-on with the use of a harness. Harnesses are made from several different materials, leather being the most common. Leather is most comfortable against the skin, and though it cannot be disinfected, keeping it clean and polished will provide the wearer with a lifetime of sexy fun. Harnesses are also available in nylon, fabric, and vinyl; the fabrics are, of course, machine washable, and vinyl is easily cleaned with soap and water.

Harnesses come in a few different styles, the choice of which depends on the user’s personal taste and which is most comfortable. The G-string style has a single strap between the legs, often providing direct pressure to the genitals during use, which some people enjoy, others do not. This style provides more control than the two-strap harness, which is built more like a jock strap, with two straps running around the buttocks, making for a better fit adjustment. The G-string style is generally considered an easier choice for beginners. Thigh harnesses wrap around the leg, and can be worn by both partners for simultaneous penetration. Also for dual penetration, a double dildo compatible harness is available.

Using a strap-on dildo takes some practice, as it becomes like a new and awkward appendage. Some women may feel self-conscious with the thing dangling between their legs for the first time, but wearing it around the house alone at first may help. The most important part in using a strap-on dildo for the first time in a lesbian relationship is communication. Loving partners can easily get past the awkwardness of the first use together. Plenty of water based lubricant should be used on the dildo, and it is a good idea to penetrate gently with fingers first before charging in with the dildo. A good, consistent pace should be found during the act, again, with good communication between partners.

A strap-on dildo can being an exciting new expression into the bedroom for lesbian couples. With the endless range of styles and sizes, any couple can completely customize this intimate experience, and bring a whole new adventure into lovemaking.

The Male G-Spot

The anus comprises of some of the most sensitive nerve endings per square inch compared with anywhere else in the body. The male G-Spot, also known as the prostate, is located deep within the rectum and when stimulated can lead to the sensation of an orgasm without ejaculation or any form of penile stimulation. The prostate gland can be also be massaged to provide health benefits. The use of prostate massage in a medical sense for prostatitis, an inflammation of the prostate gland, has not been employed as a primary treatment of this condition since the 1970s however urologists still widely use it today as a part of a digital rectal examination in order to look for nodules of prostate cancer. 

Stimulation of the Male G-Spot

Some men, as well as being able to attain orgasm from the massage of the G-Spot alone with the aid of either a finger or a G-Spot stimulator (shaped similarly to a finger) in the form of a probe that can be twisted around, can also receive intense stimulation from anal intercourse. Arousal of this region is now much more commonplace in sexual relationships or in solo sexual activities. Today there are many more products on the market to help men achieve satisfaction from the G-Spot. Also popular amongst men are G-Spot vibrators, dildos and butt plugs.  Inserted into the rectum through the anus, anal sex toys are thought to provide a more intense orgasm for men than through sexual encounters that lead to ejaculation through the penis. Anal dildos and vibrators aimed at prostate stimulation often feature a curved tip in order to target the G-Spot more effectively. Adult toys aimed at male stimulation of this area come in a variety of sizes and include surfaces ranging from smooth to ridged in order to arouse the G-Spot region.

The Female G-Spot

A small bean shaped area located just behind the upper front wall of the vagina, the female G-Spot is usually a one and a half to two inch area that falls right inside the vaginal opening containing a multitude of stimulating impulses. If stimulated correctly, the female G-Spot can lead to multiple orgasms during one sexual encounter. Due to its positioning, the female G-Spot can often be hard to locate when receiving the male partner. Once aroused the female G-Spot has similar traits to the male erect penis in that it becomes hard and firm. It can also swell to the size of a walnut.

Invigoration of the Female G-Spot

The female G-Spot can be located for sole pleasure or gratification with a partner. A good way of doing this is to use a finger to explore the inside front wall of the vagina using firm upward pressure. The G-Spot will feel like a small lump and an urge to urinate will occur replaced by a feeling of sexual pleasure. There are also gels available that when applied to the area will temporarily enlarge the size of the G-Spot making orgasm easier to achieve. Female G-Spot vibrators, distinguished from the male equivalent as they are shaped more like a phallus specifically to target the G-Spot, can also provide arousal to the female. Only a number of sexual positions will allow the penis to continually invigorate the G-Spot as the female G-Spot is very difficult to locate when lying down.  Positions such as the rear entry sex position (doggie style) where the man kneels behind her when she is on all fours using pillows placed under the knees with the man and woman taking up positions as closely to each other as possible is one such position. Another good one is the female superior position in which she lies on top of the man with her legs on the outside of his legs and her body is parallel to his. While she is on top, she can kneel, squat or sit on top of his erect penis while he can penetrate deeply.

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Why should men have all the fun when it comes to sex toys? With male sex toys such as male masturbators, cock rings and toys, penis pumps, sex dolls, penis sleeves and manhood enhancement products catering specifically for male sex needs and dildos, vibrators, love eggs and bullets, nipple clamps and anal sex toys accounting for the sexual requirements of both sexes, what is aimed specifically at the female erogenous areas?

Rabbit Sex Toys

First introduced in 1998, rabbit sex toys are now established as one of the most popular sex toys used by females. Rabbit sex toys, also known as rabbit vibrators, vary from classic vibrators as they not only feature a shaft for internal vaginal stimulation but attached to this is a smaller vibrator, often in the shape of a rabbit that provides external stimulus to the clitoris via the tickling motion of the rabbit’s ears. Rabbit vibes also often have pleasure pearls built into the shaft that rotate at various speeds during penetration causing a more formidable orgasm. Dolphin and bear clitoral stimulators are also now common in place of the rabbit feature but they are still classed as a form of rabbit sex toy.    

Female Sex Pumps

Sex pumps are not only available for men. Female sex pumps aim to arouse the erogenous areas by either increasing the flow of blood to the clitoris or the breasts thus augmenting the pleasure to the labia and the nipples. This is achieved by using a sucking motion to create a vacuum in the pump chamber. Some female pumps also have the added benefit of having a vibrating motion to tickle the intimate female areas simultaneously.

Butterfly Stimulators, Clit Clips and Clitoral Stimulators

Butterfly stimulators, also known as butterfly sex toys, are discreet enough to be worn underneath clothing (for the more daring who wish to wear them whilst out) and generate variable speed massaging vibrations to the clitoris when activated. Coming either with wires or as wireless units some butterfly stimulators also come with mini internal stimulators thus providing twice the excitement. Clit clips in the guise of clitoral jewellery can be worn if you have a clitoral piercing or if you do not. They not only highlight the most intimate feminine areas but more importantly heighten sexual sensations.  Clitoral Stimulators, otherwise known as clit vibrators, traditionally take the form of cock rings that are worn on the base of the penis and have a bumpy surface that arouses the clitoris during intercourse. Mini finger vibrators also fall into this category; they can be used either with a partner or for solo masturbation. 

Strap Ons

Popular amongst gay and straight couples, a strap on is a dildo that is traditionally worn with a harness during intercourse. Aiming to stimulate the anal or the vaginal passage, they can also be used for solo or mutual masturbation.  A relatively recent innovation to the strap on market is the strapless strap on. Balancing or a sturdy base, strapless strap ons can simultaneously act on both vaginal and anal areas.  

Moreover, with a variety of female sexual enhancement products also available that aim to heighten clitoral sensitivity, heighten orgasms and increase the size and feeling of the female g-spot, female sex toys and enhancement products are just as effective as sex toys aimed solely at the male market.

Let’s say you’ve just made a quick visit to your favorite sex shop. You’ve taken the time to carefully consider the many different options of vibrators, dildos and anal toys that the store has to offer. Understandably, the first thing you may want to do when you open your brand new sex toy is to put it to good use. However, before you take the plunge into sexual bliss, there are a few things you need to know about caring for your sex toys.

First things first, before you actually start using your new sex toy, take a few moments to inspect it just to make sure that there aren’t any flaws in the production of the item. It is often an individual’s best bet to purchase the sex toys made out of silicone or other safe materials like food-grade vinyl or stainless steel. If you’re unsure about the sex toy, it’s always a good idea to have a condom handy to use on the dildo, vibrator or anal sex toy. Make sure you also read any information online such as the ones you can see on http://www.temptationsdirect.co.uk.

Although no sex toy will last forever, keeping your dildos, anal sex toys and vibrators clean will ensure that you maximize the life of your toys. Make sure you use a sex toy cleaner or mild soap and hot water to make certain that the toy has no bacteria or harmful dirt on it before and after use. Because the sex toys are meant to be used on the most intimate parts of the human anatomy, it is absolutely important to ensure that the sex toys are clean before any use.

To prolong the life of your sex toy also means finding a proper and safe storage area for the items. Before putting the sex toys away, make sure that they have been dried thoroughly to prevent any growth of substances such as mildew. Also be sure to keep your dildos or other sex toys in a dry place with nice cool temperatures to avoid any discoloration.

Sex toys are instrumental in an enhanced sexual experience whether you use them in foreplay or throughout the whole love making process. Keeping them clean and storing them well is easy when you’ve got the basics of sex toy care down and keeps you carefree when using your toys.