Most adult toy enthusiasts are familiar with having toys that are specifically aimed at the needs of men such as enlargement pumps, or those for women including butterfly stimulators, but there are also a large proportion of adult toys available that are intended to be used by couples.  Beneath are some of the most popular sex toys for couples available.

Vibrating Cock Rings

Long established as a male sex aid, cock rings are not solely beneficial for men but can also help with the stimulation of the female partner. This is especially the case with vibrating cock rings which are worn around the base of the penis and help the male to sustain a longer lasting, firmer and thicker erection. However, unlike regular cock rings (which do benefit the female by helping to prolong the sexual act), vibrating cock rings either come with a built in motor or have a bullet vibrator that is designed to attached to the cock ring. This stimulates the clitoris leading to a more enjoyable experience for the female.  A number of vibrating cock rings also have stimulating pleasure nodules on the surface for further stimulation.

Fingertip Massagers

Along with small vibrators, fingertip massagers are the perfect items to use in foreplay. Finger massagers are available as flexible sleeves that fit over the finger and come with a raised nodule surface, and ones that come with a vibrating bullet built in. Use them to caress the surface of your partner’s skin to get them in the mood for lovemaking. There are also tapered ended finger stimulators available for use in anal play.

Penis Sleeves

Penis sleeves can also benefit both partners. They are available as either single ended or open ended sleeves. The single ended sleeves usually come with an extension built into the end of the sleeve which enables the male partner to add more length to the penis which enables the receiving partner to enjoy a deeper level of penetration if desired. Some examples include pleasure nodules on the outer surface. The open ended penis sleeves come either as singles or in a pack and have different stimulating textures on the outside which stimulate the female partner. Penis sleeves are stretchy so that they fit all penis sizes.

Remote Control Sex Toys

Remote control sex toys have become more popular of late. These adult toys are usually wireless with some of them having a range of up to 10 metres. Simply pass the controller to your partner and let the fun begin! Often coming with multi-speed functions available at the touch of a button, remote control sex toys can be used anywhere as long as they are within the range of the controller. When the female partner is wearing an egg or a bullet vibrator and their partner has the controller, she can experience any number of sensations without being in control.

Shower Sex Toys

To help you enjoy better sex in the shower there are a number of products available as well as vibrators which include an attachment that turns your shower into a dual headed unit so that both partners can stay warm and wet at the same time, suction handles that fit to the tiles which enable you to enjoy different shower sex positions without slipping and even shower suction cuffs so that you can enjoy light bondage while you’re under the running water.

Adult toys that are traditionally associated with solo use can also be used as couples’ sex toys. A rabbit vibrator, can for example, be used by the male partner to pleasure the female partner rather than the female using it by herself. Likewise, a female partner can use a male masturbator on her man rather than him using it as a solo toy. Why not use your imagination and enjoy adult toys together.

With Christmas coming up it’s nearly that dreaded time of year when you have to start thinking about what gifts to get. This can be especially difficult when it comes to getting the perfect present for your partner. Why not do something a little different and get a sexy gift that can be used over and over again that you can share with your partner or that they can use alone? This guide to the best in sexy gifts will set you in the right direction.

1. We Vibe 2

The award winning We Vibe 2 is a flexible vibrator in the shape of a C which has two small vibrators in each end that provide nine different levels of vibration and pulsation at the touch of a button. Suitable as a sex toy for couples or for individual use, this vibrator is guaranteed to hit the right spot every time!

2. Amour Be Mine Cuddle Massage Kit

The perfect present to give to a female, this kit comprises of a cute fluffy white teddy bear, a 4 inch long multispeed vibrator with 3 interchangeable tips and a bottle of massage oils with added pheromones. This kit is ideal for sharing sensual moments with your partner.

3. Razzle Dazzle Gift Set

The Razzle Dazzle Gift Set is just the thing when it comes to sharing at Christmas and beyond that. The erotic 3 piece black set contains a 6 inch long multispeed waterproof vibrator with a diamante encrusted base, a fluffy feather tickler and a pair of naughty metal handcuffs. It comes boxed with a beautiful satin lining.

4. Bedroom Commands

If you’re searching for a game with a sexy twist then Bedroom Commands is ideal. It’s a card game intended for two players with 108 cards (54 for men and 54 for women) that are guaranteed to bring variety and spice to your sex life. What could be better!

5. Pleasure Ring Collection

The Pleasure Ring Collection is a set four different stretchy jelly cock rings, all of which have pleasure nodules on the outside which serve to stimulate the female partner when worn by the male. Keeping the man harder for longer, these pleasure cock rings help both partners to have better sex.

6. Diamond Red G-Spot Vibrator

This waterproof multispeed vibrator comes with a specially curved tip which makes finding the female g-spot a whole lot easier! It also comes with a diamante encrusted base, easy to operate controls and a 7 inch long, 1 inch wide diameter. That g-spot will no longer be elusive when this vibe is in use!

7. Fleshlight Pink Lady Super Ribbed

Exclusively for men, this male masturbator has super soft real feel skin, a vaginal opening moulded on a real vagina and a super ribbed canal for intense feelings with each and every stroke. It can also be removed from its black torch style casing and washed ready for the next use.

8. Stimul8 Pure Lube Waterbased – 50ml

This water-based lubricant makes all of your sexual experiences far easier and more pleasurable. Kind on the skin, Stimul8 Pure Lube is also not sticky or tacky, fragrance free, latex condom compatible and lasts for as long as you need it to.  It can also be used as a massage lotion.

9. Knitted Willie Warmer

A novelty present is a great way to add a little bit of fun to proceedings. The red Knitted Willie Warmer comes as a hat and scarf set for the manhood keeping him warm on even the coldest of winter nights!

10. Skins Condoms Assorted 12 Pack

Last but not least, stay safe whilst adding a bit of variety to intimate moments with this pack of Skins Condoms which contains 4 natural, 4 dots and ribs and 4 ultra thin.

For further information about all of the above products and more ideas for an ultra sexy Christmas, visit the Temptations Direct Adult Christmas Shop.

When you’re looking to explore new and exciting sexual frontiers in the bedroom, strap on dildos can be a unique way to broaden your experiences. A lot more than a “sex toy for lesbians”, many heterosexual couples also enjoy these adult toys incorporated into their erotic play. Able to be used in several ways, strap-on dildos are great sources of pleasure for him AND her, which makes them an essential addition to any toy collection.

Strap On Dildos: What Do You Need?

When inviting a strap on toy into your bedroom, be aware that these dildos are pleasurable and fun all by themselves, even when used outside of a harness. Made with a wide, flanged base that anchors the toy in a harness, the shape is also comfortable to hold for self use or during partner play, thanks to the wide, easy-to-grip rim at the bottom. Harnesses, which are essentially sturdy underwear that holds the dildo in place, should be researched for comfort and size before buying – it will be helpful to have waist inch measurements on hand to help narrow down the many selections on the market. Reviews, typically available on a sales site, will also help you decide which harness will be best for your needs.

Strap On Dildos: His Pleasure

Men have a secret erogenous zone called the prostate in their “backdoor”. When stimulated or massaged, the area acts much like the female G-spot does, intensifying orgasms and increasing passionate responses. A small, slender strap on is a great place to start experimenting, as this will likely be the most comfortable size for a man just starting out. To specifically target the prostate, look for a dildo with a slight curve to the tip, and a rounded edge for maximum contact. The female partner also shouldn’t be afraid to use a good quality lubricant when engaging in strap on play; the anal area does not make natural lubricant, so lube is a must for comfortable, safe, and healthy strap on experiences.

Strap On Dildos: Her Pleasure

Even with a male partner available, women can enjoy a number of erotic benefits from strap on dildos. Even after a man has experienced orgasm, he can continue to pleasure his partner with these toys, thanks to several innovative designs. Hollow strap ons can be worn over the penis for uninterrupted penetration, and special thigh and hand harnesses allow partners to be physically close and enjoy penetration without depending on the male partner obtaining an erection. A great way to initiate and extend the sex act if the male partner is tired, has a medical condition, or simply wants to completely satisfy his partner, strap on dildos can be a man’s best bedroom friend!

In an intimate, loving lesbian relationship, lesbian sex toys can add a pleasurable and exciting level to lovemaking. There is an incredible range of toys available for any couple, but among lesbian couples, the strap-on dildo is perhaps one of the most popular, though some find it a bit of a daunting item to bring into the bedroom initially. For lesbians who desire the sensation of penetration, however, the strap-on can be an exceptionally exciting and endlessly rewarding toy, and can bring a great level of contact to sex.

Strap on dildos come in many different styles, but the first and most important part to take into consideration is the harness. Essentially, any dildo with a flared base can be turned into a strap-on with the use of a harness. Harnesses are made from several different materials, leather being the most common. Leather is most comfortable against the skin, and though it cannot be disinfected, keeping it clean and polished will provide the wearer with a lifetime of sexy fun. Harnesses are also available in nylon, fabric, and vinyl; the fabrics are, of course, machine washable, and vinyl is easily cleaned with soap and water.

Harnesses come in a few different styles, the choice of which depends on the user’s personal taste and which is most comfortable. The G-string style has a single strap between the legs, often providing direct pressure to the genitals during use, which some people enjoy, others do not. This style provides more control than the two-strap harness, which is built more like a jock strap, with two straps running around the buttocks, making for a better fit adjustment. The G-string style is generally considered an easier choice for beginners. Thigh harnesses wrap around the leg, and can be worn by both partners for simultaneous penetration. Also for dual penetration, a double dildo compatible harness is available.

Using a strap-on dildo takes some practice, as it becomes like a new and awkward appendage. Some women may feel self-conscious with the thing dangling between their legs for the first time, but wearing it around the house alone at first may help. The most important part in using a strap-on dildo for the first time in a lesbian relationship is communication. Loving partners can easily get past the awkwardness of the first use together. Plenty of water based lubricant should be used on the dildo, and it is a good idea to penetrate gently with fingers first before charging in with the dildo. A good, consistent pace should be found during the act, again, with good communication between partners.

A strap-on dildo can being an exciting new expression into the bedroom for lesbian couples. With the endless range of styles and sizes, any couple can completely customize this intimate experience, and bring a whole new adventure into lovemaking.

Temptations Direct, one of the UK’s premier online sex shops, has just gone mobile! This means that when you visit the main site on your mobile device you have the option of going to the mobile store. This simplified version of the main site still offers all of the sex toys, sexy lingerie, bondage and fetish as the main site but because the design is stripped down you may find it easier to use on your mobile. If you want to go back to the main site, it’s just a click away!

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With Easter fast approaching and the idea of eating too many Easter eggs an all too prominent memory from last year perhaps you should turn your attention to an Easter gift that you can share with your partner that will last a long time after Easter eggs have all gone.

Sticking with the egg theme, why not substitute Easter eggs with love eggs and bullets. Designed to stimulate the g-spot, love eggs are small circular shaped balls which usually contain smaller inner balls and can be inserted into one of the erogenous zones creating pleasure whenever any degree of movement (for example, walking or running) is made by user. Coming with a handy pull cord so they cannot go too far inside, they can be worn discreetly underneath clothing or enjoyed in the bedroom with a partner. Bullets are small vibrators that can be used either alone or with a partner and come with either single or multi-speed vibrations available at the touch of a button.

You could also try replacing the chocolate Easter bunny for a rabbit vibrator. Also known as rabbit sex toys, rabbit vibes come in all shapes and sizes ranging from mini vibes all the way to 11 inch long models. What distinguishes rabbit sex toys from other types on the market is that, aimed at women, they not only have a shaft that thrusts away (containing pleasure pearls that rotate) but also a ‘rabbit’ feature that stimulates the clitoris when activated. This special kind of adult toy can be used alone or with a partner for increased fun and games at bedtime.

If you have been invited to a fancy dress party or you want to spice things up in the bedroom, why not try a bunny costume. Coming with all the essentials – the fluffy tail, the pointed ears and the cuffs – bunny girl costumes will turn the head of any red blooded male when you walk into a room full of party goers or your other half when you enter the bedroom. If you don’t want to go the whole hog, a pair of bunny ears is just as effective for entering into the Easter spirit.

If you really don’t want to part with the idea of tucking into chocolate this Easter but don’t want to overdo it with the traditional fare of Easter eggs, why not indulge your more decadent side with some edible chocolate body paint that can be applied to any part of either yours or your partner’s body. Chocolate flavoured massage oils and intimate shaped body parts made from chocolate are also available.

Whatever you do this Easter just make sure that you have fun. Happy Easter!

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Sex toys have been around in one form or another for hundreds of years but they are becoming more popular than ever in modern day society. Often referred to as marital aids, sex toys facilitate sexual pleasure for couples or for solo use. A recent study of the Temptations Direct website purchaser figures illustrates that the proportion of women and men buying sex toys is a fairly even split with 52% of women and 48% of men being consumers. If you are new to sex toys and want to try them out for the first time to heighten sexual satisfaction and spice up your bedroom activities but are unsure what sort of toy to buy this guide could help you to make a decision.

What type of sex toy is the best to start off with?

Which sex toy to start with is one of the first things to consider when thinking about the potential purchase of an adult toy? Sex toys come in many different guises: dildos, cock rings, anal sex toys, male and female sex pumps, sex dolls, strap ons and vibrators to name but a few. If you want to experience a penetrative sex toy for the first time it is a good idea to try something that has some degree of flexibility such as a jelly dildo. Non penetrative sex toys such as cock rings that are made of silicon or rubber have some give in them and can help to prolong an erection which is firmer and fuller that can lead to increased sexual satisfaction for both parties. These cock rings have far more flexibility than rigid metal cock rings, which cause considerable restriction to the wearer.

Size and cost matters

Other important factors to consider are size and cost.  Start small and work up to bigger sex toys when you are more experienced. Mini vibrators deliver a fantastic orgasm but are small enough to be transported just about anywhere. You also do not want to spend a considerable amount on your first purchase if you are unsure whether you will enjoy the experience of a sex toy. Small vibrators start from as low as £4, jelly dildos are anything from £10 and cock rings retail from as little as £2 and therefore do not result in a considerable outgoing.

Use sexual lubricants

If you are a beginner to penetrative sex toys it is always advisable to use a sexual lubricant. This is especially important in the use of anal sex toys as neither the anus nor the rectum naturally produce their own lubrication so it is imperative that anal lubrication is used for more pleasurable and comfortable anal sex toy pursuits. Moreover, some anal gels and sprays are specifically designed to condition the tissues surrounding the anus and relax the anal muscles, therefore making penetration considerably easier. Anal finger stimulators are ideal for first timers to anal play as not only are they small and inexpensive but they are often made of soft silicone making penetration far more comfortable.

Sex toy cleaner

On purchasing your adult toy you should also contemplate buying a sex toy cleaner. Cheap to buy, this additional item should be utilised immediately after sex toy use to keep it clean. Safe, effective and ant-bacterial, sex toy cleaners help to prevent the spread of germs and bacteria and help to keep your sex toy last for longer.

For more information on the variety of sex toys available, visit the Temptations Direct website.

Saucy Valentines gifts will really get both you and your partner in the mood for a night to remember! Temptations Direct has specially selected a number of gifts specially selected to cater for men and women, starting at under £5. Enhance your bedtime experience with sex toys, adult board games or sultry underwear, or get into the role play spirit with sexy costumes or a silky blindfold. If you want to experience a bit of everything then try out an extra special sexy gift set. One thing you can be sure of is this Valentines will be one that you won’t forget in a hurry!

When it comes to anal sex it does not matter how experienced you are, anal lubricants are essential because the anus and rectum do not naturally provide their own lubrication therefore anal intercourse without an anal lubricant would be a particularly painful experience. Anal lubes help the participant to have more enjoyable anal sex.

Can anyone participate in anal sex?

A popular misconception surrounding anal sex is that it is solely the pursuit for gay men. This is not true. Many straight couple also take pleasure in anal intercourse. Water-based anal lubricants and good quality condoms help to ease the penis into the anal passage more comfortably. However, it is imperative that anal sex is taken slowly as the lining of the rectum is fragile and can easily be damaged by energetic thrusting. This is especially the case if the ‘receiving’ partner is not completely relaxed. Whatever the sexuality of the couple, before engaging in anal sex it is important to make sure that your partner is completely happy with it. If one partner doesn’t take pleasure from anal sex, it is best to stick to sex that both parties are happy with.

Are there different kinds of anal lubricants available?

Anal lubricants are not just available in the form of gels; coming either lightly scented or odourless, anal lubricants are also available in a range of sprays and creams. Anal lubes differ from everyday sexual lubricants are they are specifically designed to be used with condoms, and aim to relax the muscles around the anal area without losing any sexual sensations therefore allowing for easier penetration. Anal lubricants are now designed with the needs of men and women in mind, and can also be employed with the use anal sex toys.

Why use a condom for anal sex?

It is advisable to always use a condom when participating in anal sex. Not only does this significantly reduce the likelihood of contracting a sexually transmitted infection, or STI, but it also reduces the risk of pregnancy. A woman can still get pregnant from anal intercourse although the risk of this is lower than from vaginal sex. If a condom is not used, semen could easily seep out of the anus and into the vaginal passage.

The most important thing to remember where pleasurable anal sex is concerned is choosing a good quality anal lubricant.

Let’s say you’ve just made a quick visit to your favorite sex shop. You’ve taken the time to carefully consider the many different options of vibrators, dildos and anal toys that the store has to offer. Understandably, the first thing you may want to do when you open your brand new sex toy is to put it to good use. However, before you take the plunge into sexual bliss, there are a few things you need to know about caring for your sex toys.

First things first, before you actually start using your new sex toy, take a few moments to inspect it just to make sure that there aren’t any flaws in the production of the item. It is often an individual’s best bet to purchase the sex toys made out of silicone or other safe materials like food-grade vinyl or stainless steel. If you’re unsure about the sex toy, it’s always a good idea to have a condom handy to use on the dildo, vibrator or anal sex toy. Make sure you also read any information online such as the ones you can see on http://www.temptationsdirect.co.uk.

Although no sex toy will last forever, keeping your dildos, anal sex toys and vibrators clean will ensure that you maximize the life of your toys. Make sure you use a sex toy cleaner or mild soap and hot water to make certain that the toy has no bacteria or harmful dirt on it before and after use. Because the sex toys are meant to be used on the most intimate parts of the human anatomy, it is absolutely important to ensure that the sex toys are clean before any use.

To prolong the life of your sex toy also means finding a proper and safe storage area for the items. Before putting the sex toys away, make sure that they have been dried thoroughly to prevent any growth of substances such as mildew. Also be sure to keep your dildos or other sex toys in a dry place with nice cool temperatures to avoid any discoloration.

Sex toys are instrumental in an enhanced sexual experience whether you use them in foreplay or throughout the whole love making process. Keeping them clean and storing them well is easy when you’ve got the basics of sex toy care down and keeps you carefree when using your toys.